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· August 20, 2023

14. Positive Affirmation: I Will Speak Kindly To Myself with Love and Encouragement

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Words are powerful. They can lift you up and motivate your forward or tear you down and create non-starter moments. Negative self-talk can have a powerful effect not only on mental wellness, but also on how you show up and perform in life. Unfortunately, negative self talk comes all too easily, but there are ways to catch yourself from this type of talk without missing a beat. 

Learn how to make simple changes in your language in this episode of Mindful Life Changes Podcast (formerly known as the Mindful Career Change podcast), with host Valerie Mekki. She provides examples of the most common negative self-talk prompts, and how a simple change of words can make an impactful and positive difference to your mindset and how you can take action in your career changing journey. She also shares a positive self-talk affirmation to help remind you to speak kinder to yourself with love and encouragement so those negative self-talk prompts begin to slowly fade away from your everyday language.

Show Notes and Timestamps:

[00:00:53] Intro to the affirmation

[00:01:32] Words are powerful

[00:02:48] Most common negative self-talk prompts

[00:04:25] The language we use has a profound impact on our mindset and behavior

[00:05:52] Start of affirmation with a body scan

[00:06:26] Memorizing the affirmation

[00:07:08] Repeating the affirmation out loud

[00:07:56] Visualizing the affirmation 

[00:09:48] How to make your affirmation sticky

[00:11:06] End 

Curious to learn how to make your affirmations sticky? Listen to episode 1 and I’ll walk you through how to make your affirmation practice a more effective and transformative tool for your career changing journey.

 

Formerly known as the “Mindful Career Change Podcast,” I decided to broaden our conversation to cover all life transitions, not just our careers.

Follow the show @mindfullifechanges and DM a question or comment about the life transitions you’re going through too. I might answer your question in one of the episodes to help you and other midlifers navigate this everchanging and beautiful season of life.

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Oh, hello! I'm Valerie, I know midlife can be a rollercoaster full of twists and turns. As a career change guide and mindfulness enthusiast, I'm passionate about helping women like you navigate this phase with more joy and less stress.

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